Oleh Arifabdull

www.arifabdull.com wishing everyone for the best while you might busy marking yesterday as the final day for the ending 2009. Hope this new year of 2010 will make you happy! That’s all…

I don’t get what is the point for us to wish someone with some kind of unreasonable or all such stuff that mere scrap, as the wish. Yes, wishing is good and it is merely a gesture to symbolise respect in human as well as a sign of courtesy from the wisher towards the other.

I can’t stop laughing every time I heard someone wishing a ‘luckiest’ year and kind a sort of it. It’s so funny and are very nonsense because the power of that magic word as known as ‘luck’ are simply does not exist at all. It’s unreasonable of you to believe that your good luckiness for the next year are depending on my wish and pray. Even I myself can not ascertain whether my next year will be good or bad, if not lucky.

Am welcoming comments especially from the ‘luckiness believer’ out there so they may able to depend their faith on this, and hope you would show us all evidences that you may have as to support your best arguments on the existence of this ‘luckiness’.

After all, am sure that any faith in luckiness are contradicting to any value of morality which are applicable in this current world. Most of all theories based on technology of science are acceptable and indisputable for its highly senses logical substantial in proving things, that provided us the right answer for nearly almost of everything. Friday the 13 are the most popular but stupid kind of ‘bad luck’ example, but it is just a myth.

Some people believing in their luck on some numbers, especially for the 4 Digit lottery fans. That why when every time there are road accident, lots of on-lookers and passer-by will stop and try to get closer to the scene. They are not interested in helping the victims but only looking for the 4-digits of the vehicles registration number. Hence if there was at least one of the vehicles registration number you had betting in each time you saw an accident was not winning the lottery, and there were many, then we can safely conclude that the lucky number from the road accident is a myth.

Some may not only wishing someone for the new coming year but rarely forget to also thanks as the appreciations to the other for good things happened during the current year that will be ending soon. At the same time, some of us may still unable to accept reality if there something bad happened to them.

“What a ‘bad luck’ huh?”

“Your good of luck for the whole of the year gone and wiped out by the sins you have done!” (sound religious meh?)

“Don’t worry! I am wishing you with the best wish of luck so that your next year will become a very good of full lucky for you!”

“If you want to be a more lucky person on this world, you may also pay some priests with a reasonable amount for him to pray asking forgiveness which could wash all of your past sins!” (I know that doctor could wash and clean your sinus.)

Personally I never regret my past time, including the next to be left behind year of the 2009. I never care if am going to leave the whole of the year without or with any marking as achievement that can be proud of. Even if there are really any good things I had gain to achieve during the 2009 or even before, am choosing for not telling you about any of them.

Neither it’s wrong as listed in the value of morality nor it’s an unforgivable sins determined by the sinless. I simply think (personally) if someone is intentionally motivating himself (or, herself) every time he (she) doing something with target for him to achieve somethings which he can be ‘proud’ of, the poor fella may not doing it in a fair manner for himself because he (she) actually failed by achieving nothing according to his (her) real will or abilities but merely did things in order for him to satisfy others.

If you found out your desires and capabilities are not equally important in each of your next coming new years’ resolutions, or you are keeps abandoning your selfness in every time your doing things, you might already have reach to the highest level of the problem when almost all you things you did was solely purposely to serve your arrogant needs — for showing off to the others.

That is the reason why I never interested in any of my friends ‘resolution’ cheap topic of conversation, each time they raised it without failed on every end of the last years (including this one). As usual, I just able to keep listening on their details of the past and future resolutions, which was very boring for me because its seems to be always remain as the same as been promised in their last resolutions, for every years.

For the next new coming years onwards, if I were able to dream as my personal new year resolution, I would be in great happy and grateful if there will nobody sending me these kind of craps and unreasonable new year wishes anymore.